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Is this emotional empathy or a trauma response? CW: abuse

2021.12.07 12:29 n0000onemustknow Is this emotional empathy or a trauma response? CW: abuse

First some background: I grew up around very explosive people (or person rather), who was quite abusive to me. More emotionally than physically, but physically too. Either way, i grew up having to carefully monitor and regulate the moods of the people around me.
My parents were loving but emotionally neglectful, and generally my negative emotions were ignored. The only way I learned to express negative emotion was through screaming/getting physically violent. Today, I don’t usually lash out the way I used to, but I still struggle with anger management.
Back to the question: I have cptsd and to this day struggle with my own and other peoples negative emotions. That is to say I have next to zero tolerance for when people get upset. It almost makes me feel physically sick with anxiety. I’ve always been hyper vigilant to others negative emotions, and desperately try to keep people happy, sometimes to the point of going great lengths to help people. I used to think this was due to high empathy, but I’m realizing it’s codependent af. My emotions don’t match the situation. Just like how I tend to experience my own distress as anger, I feel very angry and disgusted at others in distress. I selfishly want them to feel good so I can feel good/safe/comfortable. As a kid this came out in me bullying and coercing other kids to be “happy.” Often gaslighting them and belittling their distress (toxic positivity). Over the years I’ve learned not to do that and instead respond in much more supportive and productive ways. But in my close relationships the old me comes out and it’s like I’ve learned nothing.
Is my caring so much about others distress due to high empathy + Low distress tolerance, or is it just a trauma response (hyper-vigilance + codependency). On the one hand I really want to fix others problems like they were my own. On the other I struggle with having sympathy for peoples actual distressed emotions and I really wish people would just fuck off or be happy.
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2021.12.07 12:29 niallmurphytdub Bottled-Carbonated Cider Smells Sulphuric

Hey, peeps.
I bottled my cider in early November (Nottingham yeast). Cracked one open last week, and it had a fairly noticeable sulphuric smell to it.
I tried it right before bottling, and it was absolutely fine.
After bottling the batch, I left the bottles indoors (~22°C), as opposed to the garage where the fermentation took place (~16°C). From memory, I think the upper end of the temperature range for Nottingham yeast was 20°C, however I read in a few places that warmer is better for bottle carbonation (I used carbonation drops).
Is there any way to get rid of this smell? Will aging help, or is that out of the question as it's already bottled? For reference, I refrigerated the bottle I tried for 48+ hours before cracking it open.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated on how I can salvage this. Everything else went very well!
Thanks in advance.
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I guess that if I search for downsides of sobriety I'll be able to find those as well, but I'm done searching for them after fighting to get sober for more than a decade, with tons of relapses. Fear and doubt would get me in the same unsatisfying place.
So I'm doing it this time one day at a time really commiting to change, questioning my world and self views, going to meetings (NA and Dharma Recovery), working steps, asking for help whenever I need it and addressing my mental health issues with therapy and psychiatrist as well. I abandoned old friends, places and habits that reminded me of my drug use too. That was the hardest part but now I'm focusing on myself and my health instead of what others would think of me.
Hope you all are doing ok too. We're not alone in this.
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